"Some days,
I feel everything at once,
Other days,
I feel nothing at all.
I don't know what's worse:
Drowning between the waves
Or dying from the thirst."
In one of the
recent lectures by Shaykh Kamaluddin, he talked about a trick of shaytan and that was that he keeps some
people at extremes; these people either are totally submerged in the dunya and so lack the feelings in all
their acts of worship or they are so submerged in the deen that they do more than they can and eventually burn out. As sad as it is, many of us are victim
to this trick of his, however, Alhamdulilah
there are many ways to combat it.
1) Make the right niyyat: Actions
are based on intentions (niyyat).
This is one aspect that is so often repeated yet the most neglected, we take it
for granted that whatever acts of worship we are doing are obviously for Allah
Ta’ala and hence we don’t specifically work on our niyyat. However, just working on and
renewing one’s niyyat can stir up
miracles! Working on one’s niyyat helps one realize that whatever
is being done is only for His sake and so it cancels out any room for corrupted
intentions that may creep up every now and then (such as showing off etc) if we
don’t renew our niyyat.
Secondly, it acts as a great imaan
booster; perhaps it is a blessing from Allah Ta’ala that just by renewing our intention,
we can feel such a strong sense of purpose and a stronger imaan Alhamdulilah.
Moreover, the best part about niyyat
is that it can have a multiplier effect (this is the coolest part)! :D What
does having a multiplier effect mean? It means that for every one action the
more niyyats you’ll
make the more reward you’ll get. So, for example; if a person
does wudu then that person can make
multiple niyyats like getting
cleansed from sins, getting cleaned because Allah Ta’ala likes
purity, getting cleansed to do worship, fulfilling the sunnah of the Prophet (S.A.W.W.), so on and so forth.
2) Make dua: I had never understood
why the Sahaba karaam (radi Allahu Ta’ala anhum ‘ajmaeen)
used to make dua for everything, even for the soles of their shoes when
they would break. Seriously, it was just beyond me. I felt that it would be
disrespectful if I would ask Allah Ta’ala for such little things as He is
so Majestic and Supreme. But I was so wrong in my myopic judgment. My fifth
semester; my worst semester at university begun like this; my exams were about
to start and my phuppo was going for umrah. She told me that she would make duas for my studies and deen and everything and I being so smart
(read ignorant) said that “No, no. My studies are manageable; just
make dua for my deen, please.” I didn’t say that because I thought I was smart
enough but I felt that it wasn’t important enough for me to make dua for it. Lo and behold! I had the
worst experience in that semester only to realize that Allah Ta’ala
is in fact Supreme and Majestic, in fact so much so that not even the easiest
of things are possible without His aid. That was when I realized what it meant
when Sahaba karaam (radi Allahu Ta’ala anhum ‘ajmaeen) prayed for even the smallest of things from Allah
Subhan-a-hu-wa-Ta’ala because He is capable of everything and we are capable
of absolutely nothing without His help. (Sorry this got longer than it was
meant to be!) In short; “Nothing is difficult if you seek it
through your Lord and nothing is easy if you seek it through yourself”!
So we must in shaa Allah start any and everything with dua, make a small dua if
you are short on time but do make dua.
This is also a huge blessing that Allah Ta’ala has given us. It is an amazing
tool since it not only helps us in getting His help but also helps us build a
connection with Him!
3) Start small: The first blunder
we make is that when we feel a surge of imaan,
we make the mistake of doing everything we possibly can and hence find things
extremely difficult and impossible to sustain. Instead of doing this, we need
to start small; for example; if you didn’t recite Quran previously then start
small like one page a day and slowly build on to it. Do not over exert yourself
and do not try to become perfect Muslims in one day. It is simply not possible
so don’t aim for it either!
4) Consistency: This is perhaps one
of the hardest parts because it is so easy to fall back especially when a
person tries to add new good actions into one’s routine. One way to go about it is to
make a routine! Specify times for different actions you need to do; for
example; one can decide that he/she needs to make all tasbeehat by maghrib
time. Furthermore, while adding new tasks, for example adding new tasbeehat in one’s routine, add
them in small quantities so that you don’t fall back on the tasbeehat that you have been doing regularly.
Apart from the
aforementioned points, other things that can help in staying consistent and
having feelings in one's acts of worship are:
5) Self-check: This is essential
because it helps in reflecting upon our mistakes and makes us realize our areas
of improvement and the needed plan of action. It should be done daily and also
on a weekly or/and monthly and so on basis. Every night one should evaluate the
decisions, conversations, thoughts etc one has had and think about what he/she
did wrong and if he/she did good then what more could he/she have done or what
could have been done better. Self-checks are extremely helpful because many
times we don't pay attention to what we do until we sit and reflect. Daily
self-checks can really give us insights about our weaknesses and strengths and
help us do much better. One should also keep daily/weekly and so on goals and
should check whether he/she has been able to achieve them or not.
(Keeping good
company also helps in keeping check on ourselves because when we are surrounded
by righteous company then that leads to positive peer pressure and motivates us
to do more good and helps us abstain from bad deeds which is extremely hard to
do if one is striving all by him/herself!)
6) Imaan boosters: (This is my
favorite part!) So we all have something that just gives us that needed push,
for most of us it is usually the same; like recitation of Quran, making dua,
Islamic lectures or/and company of our elders. Since none of us lives in
isolation and we interact with the world on a regular basis hence it is very
easy to get distracted or concerned about worldly matters and these imaan
boosters help in making us realize what is actually important and ever-lasting
and hence are able to increase our
imaan.
These are just a
few pointers, there can be many more that one could use to have consistency in
one's good deeds and to have the right kind of feelings in one's ibaadaat . May Allah Ta'ala guide us to
do good and may He be pleased with our little efforts for verily He is Ash-Shakoor! Ameen!
Everything good
herein is from Allah Ta'ala and all the shortcomings are my own.
